When we imagine a successful person, we think about someone with a great career, lots of hobbies, and a happy family. But we often see divorce as a failure. What if it can be a success, too? Look at it from a different perspective: you and your already-almost-ex are two mature people who can admit that no matter how hard they tried they can’t be together. You are strong enough to see it, to accept it and to fix it. Sounds far from a failure, doesn’t it?
If you are asking yourself this question, you have probably passed through stages of post-divorce depression and self-doubts. Thus, you might be ready to enter a quiet harbor of a stable relationship rather than plunge into a whirling world of unpredictable dating romance.