After separation, breakup, or divorce, is completed, the idea of you getting between the sheets with someone new and unfamiliar can trigger many of your fears and insecurities. The first sex, after having been intimate only with your long-term partner, can produce both skin-crawling anxiety and exhilarating excitement, sometimes at the same time.
Your marriage seems to have turned into a disaster. The relationship isn’t working, you are arguing all the time. And it seems that there is nothing else you can do to fix your family and still be together as a couple. So now you are thinking about getting a divorce. It could solve the problem and finally give you a happier life.
Your marriage went wrong and now you and your almost ex-spouse is seriously talking about divorce. You are trying to figure out all the details to make the process as smooth as possible. And one of the most challenging moments is to have “the big talk” with your children about it.