Your marriage went wrong and now you and your almost ex-spouse is seriously talking about divorce. You are trying to figure out all the details to make the process as smooth as possible. And one of the most challenging moments is to have “the big talk” with your children about it.

If you find yourself in a situation where your marriage is in tatters and divorce is unavoidable, but at the same time you have a toddler to take care of, the process of separation can be particularly overwhelming.

The impact that divorce has on children is an extremely important and complicated issue.

We all know that divorce has a negative impact on many aspects of children's lives. But does this mean its effect is only negative? And how does the effect differ across children?